How To Re-Attract Her AFTER She's Lost Interest In You | The Unpredictability Principle 2019

I wanted to talk to you about something that plagues most guys it's the one

thing that happens that hurts more than a woman telling you she's not interested

do you want to guess what that is the one thing that hurts more is when a

woman that has already shown some interesting you suddenly falls off the

face of the earth and starts ignoring you the vibe has changed she doesn't

react to you the same way anymore maybe she doesn't laugh at your jokes as much

and every time you talk to her you can literally feel her slipping away why

does this happen in this video I'm going to tell you why a woman suddenly loses

interested in you and how to get that interest back so keep watching there's

actually psychological reasons why women suddenly lose interest in you and it's

not what you expect a while ago they conducted a study on mice of all things

that can transform the way you think about attraction they put a little lever

in a mice cage now every time the mouse would come along and press down on the

lever a little bit of food would come down the chute so then I started to love

pressing believer they would press it over and over and over again until the

little hearts gave out but the scientists running the tests noticed

something really interesting as time went on the mice became lazy they would

only press it when they were really hungry so they decided to run a

different test and in this test everything was the same as the last

except this time the food would only drop down at random do you want to take

a guess at what happened next the mice became addicts to this lever lever lever

they couldn't stop pressing on it hoping to get their cheeks filled with food the

randomness made it exciting to the mice and this exact principle carries over to

dating if you become predictable in your interactions with the woman they'll

become indifferent to you that's just how it is what you want is to be

unpredictable don't message her at the same time every day give her space

throughout the week to wonder yeah why is he not contacting me that way your

presence will always be eagerly awaited now obviously you can totally blow this

one if you're too unpredictable or unpredictable at the wrong time

that could be it for her so getting that balance right is all these key you can't

always be unpredictable because they may just become unreliable and a woman of

high value and high demand will get really bored and move on very fast and

you can't always be too predictable because then you're too available

and you're too needy so what is the right balance the right balance is when

you start to recognize that you are a scarce resource and when women perceive

you your time your attention as scarce they will try harder to be with you when

you were at work and gtex see remember you're a scarce resource and you need to

focus on your work therefore you will text back when you are done with work

and can shift your focus to her when you're out with friends