“Sorry, I have a boyfriend” — avoid THIS!

"Sorry, I have a boyfriend".

"I have a boyfriend".

"I'm married".

"I have a boyfriend".

Tripp Kramer here from www.Trippadvice.com.

You've probably heard that before, haven't you?

Well, you've only heard it if you're going out and you're talking to girls, which you

should be so hopefully you're going out there in your approach again using all the wonderful

tips and techniques that I give you on these videos.

And if you are, you're going to be hearing "sorry, I have a boyfriend".

Why does this happen?

Well, there's two reasons: one, duh, she has a boyfriend, right?

Or she is married, she has someone.

So she is telling you the truth.

And I know sometimes it stings right like you're talking to a girl for so long and you

think you're getting along great and then she goes "oh sorry, I have a boyfriend" and

you can tell she's telling the truth, right?

Sucks, you feel like you've just wasted your time.

First of all, let me just let you know you've not wasted your time because any interaction

with women, any practice you can get in socializing, is good time spent.

Now, on the other hand, of course the other option is, she's completely lying because

that is the easiest way to reject a guy and get him to go away very fast; for them just

to say sorry have a boyfriend, even though they don't really have a boyfriend.

What are your best strategies to avoid this?

Well, of course you're not going to avoid it if she does have a boyfriend.

And if she's just saying it to you because you know, she's not really interested.

Usually she's saying it pretty fast and the interaction, usually, OK.

That means that you know once you guys are talking and you're hitting on her and

she gets it she's going to say that. This is her defense mechanism.

This is her knowing maybe she's already not attracted to you or she's just very uncomfortable

because this is a girl who doesn't get hit on very much or she's just very shy.

In order to combat this, the best thing you could do is not flirt with her too soon

in the interaction.

This is just one strategy.

You don't have to do that, you can flirt with her right away but you might be

flirting too hard core which is going to put her guard up and then she's going to be

like, "Oh, no, no, no, I have a boyfriend." Because she hasn't had time to get to

know you.