STOP WAITING For His Text & DO THIS Instead... | Matthew Hussey

This is a video for anyone

who has experienced this moment.

You are waiting for a text message,

or for someone to call you back,

or someone to ask you on a date again,

or to express that they still love you.

That they're thinking of you,

but right now

your phone is blank.

There is no message.

There is no phone call.

There is no person giving you

that validation that you're looking for,

and the result

is that you are anxiously waiting.

I believe that this anxious waiting

when we're sat by our phones,

staring at it,

waiting for this person to show up,

and reassure us

that we are still being thought of,

that we're still attractive

is responsible for so much unhappiness

on any given day.

The problem with waiting for someone's reassurance

is that it doesn't last.

You know someone could text you right now,

and you'd feel good, you'd feel elated

that they reached out to you,

but that feeling lasts minutes or hours

before the anxiety creeps back in again,

and you start asking the same questions.

Are they thinking about me now?

Do they like me as much as they did yesterday?

And so on...

So there has to be another way,

and it can't just be distracting ourselves,

because I think that's a lot of people's answer is...

Well if you're feeling that anxiety,