The Dark Side of Being Too Nice

Being nice is costing you power.

And if you are too nice, this is

the video for you.

Being nice is socially rewarded.

Subtle truth, niceness feels safe but safety is

not equivalent of respect.

And this is what we are going to

understand today.

Your niceness is making you weak.

And more than it is making you weak,

it is making you look weak.

Yes, there is a difference between these two

things.

Now before I proceed, I want you to

understand that this video is not anti-kindness.

No.

This video is about you being too nice.

Being nice is okay.

But being too nice, it's dampening your strength.

It's making you into somebody you don't respect

after a while.

As human beings, it's damn important that we

respect ourselves.

We should know what we are, where we

belong, what we deserve.

And nobody else should feel entitled or in

a position to tell us what we should

expect from ourselves or what we deserve.

I have observed this way too often that

when people are nice in general, many people

take them for granted.

Though it's really really private, I don't want

to indulge into details, but I want to

tell you a few facts about my own

life.

And believe me, I don't just say these

things because I want to make these videos

stand out and make them fancy.

No.