This FBI Secret Can Make Girls Like You Instantly...

so last night i was watching this amazing master class done by chris voss you might have heard

of chris voss recently because he's literally everywhere that i look and chris used to be the

lead international hostage negotiator for the fbi and in 2016 his book never split the difference

made a huge splash in the business world anyways in this master class chris reveals the eight

conversation tactics the fbi uses in hostage negotiations and while all of these tactics

are mind-blowing there are two that really stood out to me these two tactics are used to establish

trust which is crucial in in a negotiation scenario but it can be used in pretty much

any conversation you have including when you're talking to a woman that you're interested in

so these two tactics help create a feeling of trust and rapport almost instantly and the moment

you start using them while you're talking to a girl she's going to feel a warm sense

of connection to you which is great she's gonna feel like she has a special bond with you even

if she just met you and you can guess what a huge advantage that it's going to be if you're trying

to date this girl or even trying to strengthen your relationship with her sleep with her date

or whatever so without any further ado i want to dive into this video now and show you what these

tactics are and how to use them so pay close attention because even though these tactics

are ridiculously simple you need to understand it properly so that you can use it in the right way

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now so that you never miss a video okay let's get started here are the two tactics to build instant

trust and rapport with women and we'll go through them one by one starting with tactic number one

mirroring there are two versions of this tactic the classical version and the chris vos version

in the classical version all you do is copy a person's body language or tonality as you interact

with them so let's say you and i are talking to each other we're having a good conversation and

you notice that i cross my arms like this in order to successfully mirror me you just need to mimic

this gesture and cross your arms as well now let's say i lean in towards you to say something like

this again to use the mirroring tactic all you do is mimic or mirror my act of leaning in so you do

this it's that simple you can mirror any and all aspects of my body language and tonality the way

i use my hands my posture my eye contact how fast or slow i speak really fast uh how loud or soft my

voice is in fact you can even mirror my breathing and blinking patterns all you have to do is notice

what i do and copy it you can even practice with this video right now to practice mirroring it's so

simple now of course the obvious question is how will this childish act of mimicry make the girl

or any girl like me well science says this act of mimicry unconsciously produces a feeling of trust

and connection within the person being mimicked it makes the person feel like you're just like

them and we automatically trust and like people who are like us it's our natural instinct it is

literally how we're built the only caveat is you got to be subtle with this version of mirroring

if you mirror a person's actions exactly the moment they do it it can be freaking weird

so a rule of thumb is to wait three seconds before you mirror a person's actions so if

i go like this you don't like this right away that's much more subtle and it won't feel so